Early Signs a Parent May Need Help at Home (Before a Crisis)

Subtle changes to watch for

Unopened mail, expired food, increasing clutter, bruises from “minor” trips, missed medications, or canceled appointments can signal that routine tasks are becoming hard.

Conversation, not confrontation

Use specific, caring observations: “I noticed the pill organizer still full—can we set reminders together?” Small offers of help build trust.

Start small

Begin with meal prep, light housekeeping, or rides to appointments. A little consistent help often restores confidence.

Protect independence

Support isn’t about taking over—it’s about keeping routines safe and sustainable.